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WOMEN @ THE CENTER

 
 
Hey there,
 
It has been a lovely and busy month for me. As we enter the fully vaccinated status, myself and my partner are able see old friends again. There is a sense of ease as we laugh and dine together, still in small groups and at home. 
 
“This too shall pass” is an old maxim. As I age, I appreciate that perspective. In difficult times, it reminds me to keep one foot in front of the other, in grief I remember to fully grieve knowing that I will feel joy again. In joy, I am grateful for the circumstances and the love that surrounds me in that moment knowing how quickly life can turn. 
 
Life has been an amazing ride. Whether under the stars of the Milky Way or watching hummingbirds at the feeder, I am reminded of how astonishing and beautiful it is to even exist. Then all that is claims me and I am completely in peace.
 
Kim
 
Women's weekly programs
 
 
Inspiring Friendships
 
This weekly chat group is for all women (no matter how you identify) to discuss topics of interest and find connection.
 
Join us for an hour and a half of interesting chat as the spirits moves us.
 
Thursdays @ 10:30am
 
Final Hike of the season!
 
 
Spring Walking & Hiking
Tuesday, May 18th @ 8:30am
Spitler Peak Trail
 
Spitler Peak Trail is a moderately trafficked out and back trail located near Mountain Center.
We will be hiking 3 miles in and 3 miles back, with an elevation gain of 1000 ft.
The whole trail is 10 miles with a 2400 ft elevation gain if there are any super keeners out there who want to do the entire trail.
 
Weather in Mountain Center is reported to be a high of 71° next week, so we'll start @ 8:30am
It should be in the 50°s when we start.
 
Bring 2 liters of water, good hiking boots and poles.
 
Drive 32 miles south on Highway 74 from Highway 111 in Palm Desert. Turn right on Apple Canyon Road (3. miles east of Mountain Center). At nearly 3 miles, you will see the sign for the Spitler Peak Trail on the road's right shoulder. Park here and begin the climb to the peak.
 
Reserve your spot here
 
Breaking the bread
 
 
Dogs welcome on leash.
 
Arrive at 7:30 if you want to join Kim for a walk around Ruth Hardy Park.
1 mile, no elevation.
 
 
Bagels in the Park
Ruth Hardy Park
Sunday 23rd May @ 8AM
 
Join us for coffee and bagels in Ruth Hardy park.
Easy conversations, good laughs. Catch up with old friends, meet new friends.
 
Meet up west of the parking lot @ X.
 
New women's discussion group
 
 
Book And Movie Salon
Tuesday 15th June
@ 7PM - 8:30PM
 
The Women's B.A.M. Salon will take place virtually on the third Tuesday of each month. This is a discussion group
highlighting women authors and women's stories and experiences.
 
Each month will alternate
between books and movies. 
 
The book for June 15th is
"And Playing the Role of Herself"
by K.E. Kane.
FIRE: A film by Deepa Mehta
Starring: Nandita Das and Shabana Azmi
 
This controversial 1996 Movie was banned in India because it depicted a lesbian relationship.
 
Sita (Nandita Das) and Radha (Shabana Azmi) are two Indian women stuck in loveless marriages. While Sita is trapped in an arranged relationship with her cruel and unfaithful husband, Jatin (Jaaved Jaafei), Radha is married to his brother, Ashok (Kulbhushan Kharbanda), a religious zealot who believes in suppressing desire. As the two women recognize their similar situations, they grow closer, and their relationship becomes far more involved than either of them could have anticipated. Revolutionary for its time.
 
Deepa Mehta, is an Indo-Canadian film director and screenwriter, best known for her Elements TrilogyFire (1996), Earth (1998), and Water (2005). All three of these films are stunning. They are frequently banned in India because they examine women’s roles in that society. Deepa is an amazing screen writer and director. Her Elements Trilogy of movies is something everyone should view.
 
Kim
 
If you have any recommends for movies or books you'd like to share with a brief critique, email to me @ This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..
 
Lesbian & Women's Programming elsewhere
 
Register now and write your memoir!
 
Join Ronni Sanlo, Ed.D.
Saturday, May 22nd, 11AM to 3PM Pacific Time!
 
Have you often said you want to write your memoir but people or work or your busy schedule simply take up your time? Do you have a story about an event in your life, or a place, or your family of origin or choice? You have a voice that’s demanding your attention. This is certainly as good a time as any to let it fly! 
 
I share my affordable (only $35) four-module one-day method for writing your memoir. Also included is information about legal and ethical issues and publishing options. I personally guide you through the process of reviewing your entire life then separating and focusing on those points that changed the course of your life. The course is live, not recorded, and the chat with participants, though voluntary, is enriching. Best part…no after products to try to get you to buy! $35. That's it!
 
One session. Four hours. $35.
 
Register today here
 
Saturday, May 29th, 4PM Pacific Time!
 
Women On The Net is honored to share this intimate evening with
Kate Clinton!
Join Women on the Net for this comprehensive one-on-one interview with
this amazing icon! A brief Q&A with our guests will follow.
KATE CLINTON is a faith-based, tax-paying, America-loving political humorist and family entertainer. With a career spanning thirty-six years, Kate is still at the top of her game, ready to stand up to the mic and bon mot her way through the end days of the Viagracene Epoch, LGBTQ movements in transition, religion in extremis, and media in rigor mortis. She loves Latin. She is a multi-talented and multi-platformed author, actress, stand-up humorist, impure thought leader, activist, fundraising auctioneer and social mediatrix.
 
Clinton has written for The Huffington PostThe Advocate,The Progressive, The Washington Blade and the New York Times.  She has performed for national organizations including the National Center for Lesbian Rights, Democracy Alliance, AARP, Out & Equal Workplace Advocates, and the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force.
Clinton has released more than 10 comedy CDs and DVDs and has authored three books. She was nominated for a Lambda Literary Award for her second book, “What the L?” but did not win and has been bitter ever since. She was a Broadway cast member of “The Rocky Horror Picture Show and “The Vagina Monologues" though luckily not at the same time. 
 
Admission: $10
FREE for Women On The Net Members
 
Does Pickleball pique your interest?
 
 
Do you have questions about pickleball?
Where to play?
Where to learn?
What equipment do you need?
What the hell is pickleball?
 
Then meet Mary Barsaleau.
 
Mary welcomes all your questions @
This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.
 
A direct and compelling headline
 
If you're interested in PIckleball lessons
or Round Robin play
visit here
or call 760-347-3484
 
Enjoy our weekly newsletter below
 
We’re about a month away from the state’s target date of June 15th to re-open and questions swirl. You might already be re-integrating into in-person meet-ups, or perhaps you’ve decided to stay away for the time being. Whatever you might be feeling, check out Candice’s letter below for some of her thoughts, and be sure to look over our re-opening plans as of now, if you haven’t already.
 
And now for the important topic of naps! It seems there’s plenty of variety in our relationship to this resting tool. Thanks for playing along with us.
 
As we shared last week, our physical health is intricately tied to our mental health. Moving from naps to your heart and mind, let us know how you would rate your mental health, if you’re inspired to share. We don’t take lightly that talking about these issues may bring up shame or embarrassment, and we know that our mental health is a natural human response to our experiences (and to an extent, our genetics). We see you, without judgment, and you are a part of our community, period, no matter what.
I would rate my mental health
Mostly Excellent
Good
Fair
Poor
Very Poor
 
Director's Letter
As we all venture into our “new normal” as businesses are slowly opening back up, what does that really mean for us? I saw a gum commercial that was pretty humorous where it looked like the doors were opened and everyone comes running out into the light. There was glee and laughter as people entered office spaces that were overgrown and covered in ivy, and everyone was still in their sweats, pajamas and robes hugging each other. As I chuckled watching it, I couldn’t help but wonder how will this getting back to normal look?  In conversations with people, I find there is a caution, a hesitation to just jump into life as it was in the "before time." Like children, we lost that innocence of living life on our terms as we were forced to change everything we once knew. Over this last year and now as we move forward we are learning such valuable lessons about our adaptability, finding innovative solutions for whatever challenges we had to face. We are finding and holding precious the gifts that the difficulties of this pandemic has brought. When we are moved out of our comfort zones those challenges we face can spark new and exciting changes for us.
 
Here at The Center in the Programs department, we have been able to reach folks far and wide through Zoom and we are creating innovative programs for the future that incorporate the best of both worlds (in person and zooms). That would not have been happening were it not for the realities of this past year. Normal now is what we want to make it and that is exciting. The Center has been here for you and will continue to be here for you as we move forward.
 
Candice Nichols
Director of Programs
 
Upcoming @ The Center
 
Ongoing Programs
 
 
Queer Spiritually
discussion this Monday!
 
This group provides a safe place to discuss all aspects of what it means to be queer and spiritual. We explore, learn and support each other on our individual spiritual journeys without judgement, fear or expectations.
 
First and third Mondays
through April
10AM - 11AM
 
 
Develop
YOUR moves!
 
Start the week with some
physical fun that utilizes your
best dance moves and puts a
smile on your face as you
exercise to great music.
 
Hosted by
Shaun Samaro
 
Mondays
10AM - 11 AM
 
 
 
Safe Space for
LGBTQ+ Youth
 
LGBTQ+ Youth space
If you’re between the ages of 14-20 and need a safe space to connect with other LGBTQ+ youth, Zoom by for a minute or longer.
 
Hosted by Miguel Navarro
 
Fridays 2PM - 3PM
 
 
Race Talk
In two weeks!
 
Our virtual space for ALL of our LGBTQ+ community members to come together, talk with one another, and move through the conversation about race.
 
Next talk is on
Thursday, May 27th
@ 12PM. We'll be discussing one year post the murder of George Floyd, and reflect on the Speak my Words, Tell My Truth piece by Lorenz Qatav.
 
Hosted by
Lex Ortega
 
 
If you have an idea for a program you'd like to see or perhaps facilitate, submit a program proposal online!
 
New program now enrolling!
 
 
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Late Life Depression
(CBT-LLD)
 
Up to 25 free therapy sessions for those 60 and older who qualify. This is an evidence-based protocol focused on relieving mild to moderate depression.
 
For an initial assessment, email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.
or call 760-416-7899. 
 
In need of more connection? Join us Monday through Friday online in our Zoom Meetings, like Knit Together, Women's Chat, Men's Chat, and much, much more.
 
Get Resources
  • Distribution: Every Thursday 5:00pm to 7:00 pm (PDT) at 610 S. Belardo Rd. in Palm Springs
  • Outdoor food distribution: Drive thru or walk ins
  • First come – First served
  • Face mask required and social distancing is being observed.
  • No requirements - Bring a picture ID (If available).
 
 
Drop-offs welcome on Tuesdays and Thursdays: 10:00 am to Noon and NEW Curbside drop off hours: Thursdays from 5:00 to 7:00 pm. Collecting barrels will be available in front of our food bank facility for easy, safe, self-service drive by - drop and go!
 
Lend your support!
 
 
Our friends and community partners, Brothers of the Desert have created a guide to Black Owned Business in the Coachella Valley which you can find on their website here.
 
You can also find the list in the resources section on our website here.
 
Please consider lending your support to these local businesses who have faced hardship through the pandemic and from a financial system which often fails them.
 
Help is here for paying your rent!
 
Lift to Rise is once again able to help local residents whose ability to pay rent may be impacted by COVID-19. Learn more about the fund, your eligibility, and how to apply here.
 
COVID-19 Funeral Assistance
The COVID-19 pandemic has brought overwhelming grief to many families. Under the Coronavirus Response and Relief Supplemental Appropriations Act of 2021 and the American Rescue Plan Act of 2021, FEMA will provide financial assistance for COVID-19-related funeral expenses incurred after January 20, 2020.
 
Visit here to see if you are eligible
 
Take Action
 
Vaccines available!
Speaking of COVID-19 vaccines, our Health & Wellness partner Eisenhower Health are also a great resource to schedule your vaccine appointment! To schedule an appointment at the main Eisenhower Health campus in Rancho Mirage, click here.
 
The Eisenhower Health Covid-19 Vaccine Clinic Location is located at the Eisenhower Health Main Campus at the Annenberg Health Sciences Building, at 39000 Bob Hope Drive, Rancho Mirage.
 
If you are experiencing difficulties in making an appointment, please let us know This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. and we can connect you with someone that can help you.
 
Business Partners
Support those who give!
 
Please help support the businesses who support The Center, the work we do, and who give back so generously to our community. Click here for a list of Business Partners with The Center.
 
Discover one of Palm Springs’ best kept little secrets: a stylishly spacious gay exclusive resort located in the heart of Warm Sands - Palm Springs gay Mecca.
 
Yes…the Hacienda at Warm Sands is easy to get to, but hard to leave. Rated as one of the most upscale gay resorts in the world! Click here to learn more about our amazing Emerald partner and Ocotillo Club donors.
 
Community Events
 
3rd semi-annual Food Drive THIS WEEK!
@ Edward Jones, Palm Springs
 
 
Please consider donating non-perishable food items to help out our Coachella Valley neighbors and friends. Safely drop off your donations either inside or outside the Edward Jones office on Monday May 10 – Friday May 14th,
8 AM – 5 PM
 
340 S Farrell Drive, Suite A102
Palm Springs, CA 92262
760-699-7953
 
 
A heartfelt thank you to Emerald business partner and Ocotillo Club donor Sean Heslin and the team at Edward Jones for helping us continue to feed people throughout the valley and beyond. And thank you in advance to everyone for your generous donations. We couldn’t do it without your help!
 
Fundraiser Screening THIS Saturday!
 
Mama Gloria – A Documentary Film
Directed by Luchina Fisher
 
Join UUCOD and the Coachella Valley LGBTQ community in this online event
Saturday, May 15, 2021 @ 2–4 pm
Tickets $10 – Additional Donations Accepted
Luchina Fisher and Mama Gloria will lead a discussion following the film.
 
Final week of Art Sale Benefitting
The Community Food Bank @ The Center
 
Thinking about hanging up new art? Abstract artist Bret Maling is offering a discount on all remaining art now thru May 15th. All proceeds from sales will benefit
The Community Food Bank @ The Center.
Click here to view and inquire about remaining art, or contact -This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.
 
Connect Virtually
PALS seniors and future seniors, Planning Ahead before a health issue requires connections. Come join the conversations.
 
PALS Café:
Every Wednesday, 4 PM – 5 PM
Join PALS for an informal discussion on various pertinent topics.
Zoom ID # 832 2405 1340, Passcode: 016864, Zoom Link here
Dial in: 699-900-9128
To find your nearest dial in # click here.
For more dates, sign up for email notifications at their website: palsinthedesert.com
 
Seminar:
THIS Saturday, May 15th, 10 AM - 11 AM
When Dignity =/ Suffering: Patient Autonomy Over End of Life Care
Video Zoom Conference
Register here.
 
The Center's Legacy Circle
 
It only takes a few of us to write our history - but it takes all of us to create our future.
 
Thanks to your incredible support for the launch of our Legacy Circle we now have 67 Founding Legacy Circle Members! Your amazing generosity including The Center in your estate plans ensures we will continue our important work in the community for years to come.
 
If you would like to join as a founding member or if you have included The Center in your charitable estate plans, please let us know at, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it., and we
will happily add you to our founding Legacy Circle members.
 
Feel Good Story
Staff Outing!
 
Last Friday we left Palm Springs in our rear-view mirror and drove east through a world of rural, desert landscapes and agricultural farming. The buildings along the roadside are mostly single story, with homesteads scattered distances apart or clustered together for support. There's a feeling of pride from these communities in spite of disinvestment from county and government systems. As we entered the city of Coachella we were greeted by an explosion of color: brightly painted buildings and vibrant mural covered walls welcome you celebrating a different heritage and life. A truly uplifting experience.
 
We toured The Center Coachella’s offices, meeting rooms, and cyber center, vital resources for the local LGBTQ+ community and others who need it. It felt familiar, a mini-me version of The Center in Palm Springs, but situated in Coachella City Hall's building it has a distinct identity flavored by the surrounding community and the strong cultural heritage of residents of the Eastern Coachella Valley. The phrase "the same, but different," comes to mind. And that's poignant in our post-COVID world moving forward: how do we keep what works and not be afraid to discard what doesn't? How can we value and lift up our differences while celebrating our commonalities? The Center Coachella will provide some of those answers.
We toured nearby Mecca and Thermal, visiting neighborhoods where we are active partners in this work. Once again the feeling of pride and sense of community, two words familiar to LGBTQ+ folks, is evident everywhere, the resiliency inspiring. At North Shore Park we visited a cross-generational space created for everyone to enjoy. Dedicated play areas, areas of historical interest, and art spaces to relax and appreciate the incredible desert landscape we co-inhabit, all created by a community with inequitable resources but with an eye on inclusivity. And that was the take-away of the day. Moving forward in our world that was stopped on its axis, how do we want it to spin again? Helping others, valuing differences, embracing change, facing shared challenges seem like good ways to start. And soon, when The Center Coachella officially opens, we'll be expanding our role in the ECV!
 
They were here, and they were ours
 
Here we honor the memory of folks in our community who have passed.
 
Alan Keller (1960 - 1995)
Alan was a handsome and talented man. He was fascinated by toy trains and had a gigantic train set in his house. He enjoyed cooking and entertaining at spectacular parties. I miss him! - John Tuttle
 
If you'd like to submit a name for inclusion here, please fill out this form.
 
Submissions received by 5PM Friday will be included in the next week's newsletter, for two consecutive weeks.
 
The LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert | 1301 N. Palm Canyon Dr., Palm Springs, CA 92262
1515 Sixth Street, Coachella, CA 92236
 
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    1301 North Palm Canyon Dr, 3rd Floor
    Palm Springs, CA 92262

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    Open Monday - Friday 8:30am - 4:30pm

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